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The Cancer Woman: June 21 - July 22
by Susan Miller
With her soft translucent skin and lovely
shoulders, your Cancer lover makes a knockout entrance to any
club wearing her sleek, dþcolletage slip dress, as only a Cancer
lady could carry off. But in case you think you can easily date
this beauty, be forewarned that she is no pushover. The Cancer
woman is careful about who she gives her heart to, because once
she commits, she gives her all. Your lunar lady is truly feminine,
and lucky for you, of all the signs, Cancer is the most nurturing
and protective of those close to her.
Your Challenge
Her ruler, the moon, rules the changing emotions--so she can
be a moody person. This may make it hard to figure out how
she feels about you in the early days of your relationship,
because at times your stock will appear to rise and fall.
If you marry her, this will not be a problem for she will
be very loyal to you, and often put your interests ahead of
hers. Your lunar goddess takes responsibility seriously. If
she is a single mother, her children will come first, and
you may have to wait in line. Yet it is this side of her--her
mothering instincts--that you probably find so appealing in
her.
How To Handle Her
Nothing comes before her spouse and her children in a Cancer
woman's life and thus, she often she forgets her own needs.
Here is where you can lavish attention on her. She is a bit
of a worrier, and will often second-guess herself about decisions
she has made. Reassure her that her judgment is sound, and
help her focus more on the future, less on the past. (Cancer
rules tradition, and this why she is so marvelous about creating
a warm and loving family life--she knows she is building memories!)
Holidays and birthdays are important to her, so don't put
her down for wanting to make them special. Instead, support
her.
If she seems down and suddenly you find yourself
on the outs with her, talk gently with her to get back into
her good graces. Harsh tactics would be the wrong approach
to take with her. Keep your temper under control and don't
be demanding. Her gentle feelings over-respond to criticism
and in the heat of argument you could say something which
could crush her irreparably. Cancers have excellent memories
and she will remember everything you said, unfortunately whether
you meant it or not.
Things To Do, Gifts To
Buy
The Cancer woman's home is her nest and is highly important
to her. Offer to paint her living room or to give her a hand
moving furniture around if she wants a new look. If she is
divorced with kids, take everyone on an outing (she will be
thunderstruck that you are attentive of her children, and
love you for the gesture). Later, help her locate a baby-sitter
and take her to a small and cozy family-run restaurant where
the food is delicious and the lights are low. (Cancers are
not comfortable in large, high-key, fancy places. She wants
to focus on you, not the surroundings.) If your table has
a view overlooking water, so much the better, for water rejuvenates
Cancer in a way that other signs simply can't fathom.
The Cancer woman will enjoy reminiscing, so
think about recreating the first time you made love together,
perhaps by going back to the same place or by celebrating
the anniversary. Or, give her a beautiful album filled with
snapshots of the two of you that you've been collecting.
When making love, the Cancer woman is fragile
and feminine. Because she often puts others first, a little
pampering would be a smart idea. To seduce her properly, whip
up a surprise gourmet dinner and serve it to her on a small
table decorated with flowers and white table linens set up
in the bedroom, a place she isn't used to eating. Have chocolate-covered
strawberries for dessert and feed her each by hand, one by
one. Hide a love note or special card under her plate--Cancers
are sentimental. Be especially careful about what you say
to her during lovemaking, for anything she construes as negative
could hurt her deeply---teasing is not for her.
Give her an exquisite strand of pearls (Cancer
is a crab, a little sea creature like the pearl oyster) or
a skimpy, slinky, expensive nightgown in one of her moon colors--silver,
creamy white or pale, smoky blue. She would also adore flowers--but
instead of sending her red or pink roses, make your bouquet
a variety of flowers in Cancer's color--snow white--tied with
a gorgeous thick white satin ribbon.
You'll eventually discover (if she likes you)
that she has beautiful, firm, fully-rounded breasts (the part
of the body the sign rules) which, in bed, she adores having
her man fondle and admire. Paint them with thousands of kisses
and caress them gently.
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